Your Dog
There are many ways that people can love. One thing I have learned is that I need an equal partner. I do not want to be someone's pet. I don't want to obey someone, nor do I wish to dominate someone. I blame the trend in available "Daddys" on Fifty Shades of Grey. I cannot believe that a book where the romantic hero controls what she eats, how often she works out, where she goes, and what she can have in the bedroom was such a blockbuster. He also takes care of all her financial needs so that she doesn't have to worry about being autonomous. He does not ask her what she desires. I read the series and as I did there was this odd feeling in the pit of my stomach. Was it desire? Nope, it was revulsion. It's not the kink, but the mental control that disturbs me. I may be in the minority here. Several of my friends have told me on more than on occasion that I emasculated my ex. Do I have to give him everything that he wants so that he can feel l...